November 30, 2012 § Leave a comment
Just the other day, my friend- sorry, one of my BEST FRIEND- was telling me how relationships should be easy breezy. Y’know, how everthing should just fall in place.
BUT I BEG TO DIFFER.
You see, my philosophy is that it doesn’t matter if you or you’re ‘soulmate’/friend etc have everything in common or nothing in common at all. If you really love that person, you would MAKE it work.FIGHT for it to work. I mean if that person means so much to you, you won’t just let them go so easily,right? It definitely would be ‘easy breezy’ if you’re gonna fight for this love.( Cue cheryl cole music… Okay bad pun.)
Which is why I totally disagree with her opinion. I mean just like that show ‘Fugitive Plan B’; where in one episode where they were spying on a couple making out, and the girl said,” They must be happy, since they kiss so passionately.” Only for the guy to reply,” No their not. Happy people don’t kiss like that. They kiss as if it was their last(kiss/night together/connect dots yourself).” And it was their last night together.(trust me, I watch the damn show.)
Sooo, yeah my point is totally supported. Well, kind of .(why did I mention fugitive plan b again???)
BUT the thing is, my relationship with this friend( as mention up above) is kindda ‘hard’. LIKE we barely have anything in common leading to us always disagreeing with one another, despite her being one of my besties. Which is why after she said what she said( the whole easy breezy relationship), it got me thinking. Our relationship is DEFINITELY NOT easy breezy, we had to put a lot of effort to make it work and sometimes its JUST SO TIRESOME. I get annoyed easily when situations occur and we have completely different views on it. Just like a typical headstrong person I would support my view to the end and so would she. And we would argue- or debate, whichever suits you better- till the world ends.
So what does this make her? A hypocrite? Since she said all relationships should be easy and yet our own relationship is proof of the opposite. If so, what about me? If she’s a hypocrite won’t that make me the same too? I go on and on about how it doesn’t matter whether people in the relationship are similar or completely different, and yet when I have to work- or fight since i mention that earlier- for the relationship to work I get so drained and bothered making me not WANT it to work so it’ll all just end.
I know, bad thought:s. But sometimes an easy breezy relationship is just much less tiring. Or maybe we’re still in that phase where we haven’t learn to compromise- though i doubt so since we knew each other for YEARS- and once we do, it’ll be alright.:)
I’m not saying my philosophy is 100% right, but I did put a lot of thought into it and NO i would not test this out on my relationships because i’m not freak scientist like Darwin.(how he used his own daughter as a test subject was inhumane despite him just making observation and not exactly dissecting her and shyte.)
So, I guess we just have to sit out this ‘phase’ and enjoy pleasantville after that.
AND NO WE WERE NOT JUST TALKING BOUT BGR. or bbr/ggr.
xxxxxxxx,(cause I don’t do o’s)
1nov2014- it’s so funny now that I’m reading this because I did give up and we barely talk anymore. Lol